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RIP Cali-girl

June 16th, 2025 at 11:54 pm

I’ve waited a few days to post this topic so the emotions aren’t quite so raw. We’ve had a couple of unexpected expenses arise as we’re preparing for the remodel and this one is painful.

We had to make the heart-wrenching decision to put down our dog. Once DH decided while talking to the vet, he made the appointment immediately before he could change his mind. While our pets are enjoyed by the entire family, it’s understood that the dog is DH’s and the cats are mine. So the decision was his.

She had a tumor on her belly that broke the surface of her skin and was actively bleeding. It was the right decision at the right time – the vet agreed – but still so hard.

For those of you who have pets, this is another reason to have an emergency fund. It’s a time when you want to make decisions based on what matters to you – not what you can pay. Having her poked only once made the IV worth the extra money, but getting ashes from her wasn’t something we valued.

$780 total. From the bill:

Euthanasia appointment - $280

Communal cremation - $205

IV catheterization + propofol anesthetic - $295

 

Her final hours included her favorite things - a ride in the car, a walk in the woods, and treats.

10 Responses to “RIP Cali-girl”

  1. CB in the City Says:
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    I'm so sorry. It's so hard to make that decision, but I am sure it was the right one, for her sake especially. To ease her suffering is a great gift of love.

  2. james.hendrickson Says:
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    Condolences, thats a tough one.

  3. Turtle Lover Says:
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    I'm sorry for your loss. It's sad to lose a pet. I agree about the emergency fund.

  4. patientsaver Says:
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    I'm so sorry. She was a beautiful dog. I think you made the right decision. Animals don't understand all the invasive procedures and trips to the vet, so sometimes the most loving thing we can do is recognize it's their time. You gave her a wonderful life and I hope that will give you some comfort.

  5. Suemn Says:
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    I too am sorry for you and your spouse on having to make the hard decision and on your loss. It's never easy to make that decision but remember to always think back on the love and happy times with your beautiful dog. She really does look like she was a lovely and sweet dog.

  6. LifeBalance Says:
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    Thank you all for the supportive comments. We just received a card in the mail from the vet, and it included her paw prints. We were touched - it made us cry. I'll make a page for her in our family scrapbook for this year.

  7. rob62521 Says:
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    I'm so sorry. Pets are family and it's a great loss.

  8. Tabs Says:
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    Aww I am so sorry to hear that.

  9. Dido Says:
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Cali may be gone, but the love you shared remains.

  10. LuckyRobin Says:
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    I'm sorry to hear about that. She was a gorgeous dog and I'm sure she gave you great joy during her lifetime. I'm sure you gave her great joy, too.

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